Since our divorce, the psychopath has made themselves my worst enemy, torturing me by abusing our small child, with the blessings of a family court system that is enabling the abuse. Required fields are marked *. However, if it is, it will show up. But I wonder how it plays out. Most guys I ever had feelings for were Cancers or had a personal planet in Cancer. In synastry, Lilith brings an untamed, wild sexual energy, feelings of obsession, and intense, transformative interactions. Depends on aspects to other planets. In the natal chart, she represents wild female sexuality and the anger that comes from being denied, rejected or cast out. xx. However, if it is, it will show up. I am Pluto . I would say it is a true soul mate aspect! does these aspects show a positive relationship? The North Node tells us about themes in the relationship. This placement stirs up a lot of feelings for both people. I am trying to understand NN contacts in synastry. But beyond that, this idea is way too simple. It seems irrespective of whether I am the Node person or the planet person. I honestly dont think its fair. I might be wrong and totally off in left field with my interpretation of Lilith's energy. I dont believe in past lives so this is it for me! we fell in love with each other right away, but there was some karma , a huge drama to overcome, and we dont see each other anymore. My observation Nessus is NO MATCH for Pluto . Do you want that? Hence, I will tell you the synastry aspects that I think make for unhappiness and why, of course. he was the one who was obsessed with me. What are your thoughts regarding north nodes in synastry? My Dejanira is almost exactly conjunct to the NN of a guy Im really crushing on..theres nothing between us, or anything, but I was kind of hoping..now youve totally bummed me out with this post. It's almost creepy.. lol. Not alone, S. You would have to have some really bad things in synastry for that conclusion to be made like Atropos, Aphophis, Sado, Nessus etc. My Chiron shot her down. Egos come in play and the individuals hurt each other. Maybe I'm finally starting to focus more on my actual Nodes and not on the Moon squaring them. I would really love if you were able to give me astrology related advice.. such as things you may notice that make an outcome likely or not. The Descendant conjunct the NNthe DSC person may be a partner to the NN person, such as a spouse. Re: the question, just above, about Mars conjunct NN synastry. That marriage relationship will help the NN person find his dreams. The North Node () is a mathematical concept, and it represents one point of the Moon. Was this true in your case? The theme of the relationship was pain.I did not know astrology at the time. God help me. I just found that I have Sado conjunct my Sun (exact) .. all this in Taurus 3H opposite Pluto but trine Neptune/Uranus, Moon and AC. Nessus would be the abuser . I think people would kill each other first. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a, Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 Will this affect the relationship??? Idk what to do. Moon opposite moon and lilith opposite lilith. I hate to say that it lasts forever. "I want to welcome you to my website. As usual, tighter the orb, the more intense. Posts: 53083From: Saturn next to CharmaineRegistered: Apr 2009, Im guessing you both have a strong hold on each other, most likely unconsciously at times. , The Nessus will be the abuser but the orb is wide but *i* would give it up lol. I have a one question chart for 89.99. No doubt Ive hurt him a lot, but (due to other aspects) he has also hurt me. I have Mars conjunct my NN (wide but I can relate) and Pluto widerrr (8) but it doesn't make it easier cause they're near my DSC so I project them :facepalm: AND they're out of sign! Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a, Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 This is not your fault, Love. I have my sun (Leo 1316 conjunct my spouses Nessus (Leo 1210). After wed been together for a while, I did a synastry chart I was just starting to study astrology at the time. and what if a persons nessus conjuct vesta on someones NN? If he ha sthe goal of being an artist. Most commonly seen when the two are not evolved in their Lilith, they experience a battle of wills or power struggles. ), The Nessus will try to bully the Mars but the Mars will fight back. I am thinking now of the North Node as a point which can be stimulated in infinite ways, all lending to the essential learning and growth of the North Node party. The people irritate but fascinate each other at the same time i can say from my experience <3 hope it helped (this is just from my perspective), Posts: 617From: PolandRegistered: Jan 2013, Honestly, it depends who is the most pluto or Lilith like natally. Lilith conj the NNthe person will bring his raw sexuality to the relationship. No, M. the charts take me a LONG time lol The Basic House Rulers23 Simple Steps for Beginners. The North Node () is a mathematical concept, and it represents one point of the Moon. I would not call her a friend,but I did try to be nice to her at first. But you'r right there doesn't seem to be a pattern .. Uranus shakes up the NN person so you could have both. ( what meaneth this..my devotion to his mind blowing love?). You and he may bond over the betrayal the Sedna person had but this would not mean THIS person would be betray you, I think. His NN conj my Mars in Pisces 2 degrees. Lol. Would A be Bs victim? There are no Dejanira links or issues. howver his saturn conjuncts my sun , mercury and neptune. (im the NN btw). Your take ? ..an extra twist their lilith also squares my north and south node on the other side!!! The persons adaptation would be the variable that could change <3. I just met a girl with this aspect, we live on opposite sides of the USA lol. i chose to live in the real world. but in my case, we have venus square neptune, venus square mars, also his nessus on my mars exact, then his nemesis on my vertex. Copyright 2000-2015 But with North Node, while it IS scary and like unknown territory, it feels.. Lol! In order to post comments, please make sure JavaScript and Cookies are enabled, and reload the page. I do not see a relationship going the distance with this aspect. If Nessus conjuncts Vesat, Nessus would be used for good, though, such as helping victims of abuse. what would nessus conjunct karma in scorpio mean in synastry? The Valentine gives amazing love to the other person, Jenny dear. here on this post. For example his Nessus conjunct my south node on one degree orb and conjunct my Saturn 3 degrees orb. Emotionally? Hence, these two aren't planetary bodies. ------------------Sun Capricorn, Moon Aries, Libra Rising, Yeah I can see where your going with this especially since you've had mutable aspect in synastry. I guess than it would have the same meaning except we would not be at a crossroads?? Hi, Ive been researching for some asteroids and read couple of articles of you. That which conjuncts the Moon affects the heart. My peace was when Id run away. I tried to encourage her but I wasn't going to make it my day time job! trine sun, and a few others. With the point which describes the repressed/irrepressible on a partner's North Node we can well expect a potent connection. Your take on Nessus trine Pluto in synastry ? I cant find it anywhere but my POF conjunct their NN exact. Him being the other guy we recorded with. Their natal Sado/Uranus squares my sun, and their natal Nessus is opposite my sun. I have with my friend this connection. Is it possible to interpret mars conjuncting NN in synastry as a possibilty that mars person will kill NN person? Nessus conj the NNthe person will bring you abuse, Pholus conj he NNthe person will bring all sorts of explosive outbursts. Check this out and let me know. To be very honest, I would not want a synastry with that much Saturn. The psychopaths Mars is conjunct my NN (2 degree orb). You do not want a Nessus theme. My Moon/Venus also trine/sextile his Nodes although not the strongest aspects but does it help with the Saturn square? If someone had Pholus conjunct the NN, but they also had it conjunct Valentine, would that change the outcome? Every synastry and energy between two people is unique to them. The past life karma has to be fulfilled in some way, to grow the SN person up, so the south node person will eventually outgrow the relationship with the moon person the way child grows up and leaves a maternal relationship, so it couldnt last as a romantic relationship. They have a psychic connection; a mutual understanding. Did you live in their bedroom? Nothing I ever did was good enough, she always found a way to be hurtful and punish and abusive if not with words then her actions!! Posts: 46869From: Saturn next to CharmainecRegistered: Apr 2009, Copyright 2000-2014 my true node 1055 taurus I found this really cool!!! Do I have to give him up? Ive seen it play out nasty as well. The Moon is the heart. When your Lilith aspects your someone's planet (especially the Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars, or the Ascendant), you are magnetically attracted to this person, and can't get them out of your mind 36 Zane B Stein Lilith in synastry generally speaking produces a very powerful seductive lure between the two but there can also an erratic or rebellious quality to it. He was neptune Im NN. Please somebody steer me right if so. How does it feel for the mercury person? I have an exact NN degree conjunction with someone who Im with right now. It was kind of weird but cute and it made us feel good. It would be a child like kind of bond. Higley appreciated. Intelligent girl, attractive - zero self esteem. Venus conj the NN is a relationship of deep love, i had one experience with NN and venus conjunct exact. This theme will define the relationship, too, Sedna conj NNthe person will bring a severe betrayal by men to the relationship. About Neptune conjunct NN : I confirm it can bring great sorrow I met a men 4 years ago, and his Neptune conjunct my NN he asked for a child during 2 years then he abandoned me when I was pregnant he said that he changed his mind (he didnt recongnize our child). And their Nessus in opposition to my sun. I have a Forum if you would like to post your charts. I am putting that out there and you can see if I am right. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a. However, Vesta is very much the same, so it would be an amazing encounter, if we consider these things as a separate entity. People say, it is not for this lifetime. Lol I feel very comfortable around them - like they get me on an emotional level. This theme will be brought by the person to the relationship. How awesome! Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a, http://img14.imageshack.us/img14/3832/1bx.gif. I have seen people torch the cars of their once Nessus love. trine merc., sun trine sun, venus sextile venus, venus trine mars, asc sextile moon double whammy, asc. The NN person may be angry because he may feel his life dreams are being thwarted. What do make of It? Its so correct what you write. Ohhhhh makes sense I had a feeling it meant what I had thought about these NN conjunct lilith (i). In order to post comments, please make sure JavaScript and Cookies are enabled, and reload the page. If you have this aspect, then listen carefully because this is fated and signifact aspect with tremendous impact on yo. list go on! What if your Sedna is conjunct someones south node in synastry. Now, I would avoid a relationship with ANY bad asteroid or planet conjunct the North Node. This theme will define the relationship, Sappho conj the NNthe person will bring eroticism of a literary bent. Well, I bet you are not shocked in a way cuz you must have struggled with sadism. This would take me a long time to figure out. the aspect is exact. You might want to consider these possibilities for your Lilith conjunct South Node in Capricorn in the 6th: Workaholism, escaping dealing with relationship issues through overworking, the belief that the female is to do all the daily household chores (and resentment of men, thereof, if female), too much emphasis on career/ambition interfering .